Welcome to Matrimoney!

Most people don't like to talk about money. We are not most people. 

On each episode we catch up on married life and check in on our money - from big financial goals to weekly grocery bills. We share real numbers, including our budget, and how we spend and save as we raise our two young boys.

Got a question for us? We love them. Email us! And keep up with us between shows on Instagram! Kelsey is @kelswharton and Chris is @practicallyawesomechris

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episode 53. The year of...spending??

On this episode, we reveal a shocking change in our financial focus, but one we think will be good for us, at least for a short time. And, we run through updates to our 2018 budget, where we're tightening and expanding, and what we're hoping to accomplish. In other updates, we mention completing a new house project (setting up a basic home theater room, which counter-intuitively is really great for controlling and minimizing screen time), Chris notes how he's found the perfect work shoe (Cole Haan Zerogrands), and Kelsey mentions a great way to buy used (Thredup).

Finally, in Love Notes, Chris complements Kelsey for bringing the boys to their first basketball game, and Kelsey complements Chris on taking up the grocery shopping and meal-planning. Ahh...domestic bliss.



episode 52. How to have a financial summit

In our first episode of 2018, we discuss our favorite event of the year, the Team Wharton Financial Summit! And we describe how you can have one, too (they really can be fun, we promise). We also go through the highlights and lowlights of our spending, where we hit our budgets and where we busted them, and what we're looking to improve upon for 2018.

Also, to ring in the new year, we're proud to offer our first giveaway: a pair of amazing Sudio earbuds. All you need to do to enter is leave a comment on this episode! Well choose a winner on Thursday, February 1. WINNER: Sara K - congrats!!

It's our annual financial undressing, so tune in and enjoy (and please don't judge...or do, whatever is more fun for you).


episode 51. Happy (not-too-spendy) holidays!

This is our final episode of the year, so we celebrate the holidays by - how else? - talking about the financial implications of gift-giving! We also discuss our differing reasons for buying the gifts we do and we offer up some giving ideas that don't contribute to the build-up of stuff in people's lives.

Throughout the episode, we mention a few interesting sites and resources. One nice article from A Cup of Jo about creating a weekly ritual helped us think through how we could do the same. We also mentioned a great place to buy bikes for kids (Islabikes) as well as a couple of sites that could make great gifts for those interested in learning new skills and enhancing creativity (such as Storywonk and Creative Live).

Have a great holiday season everyone! We'll see you in 2018.

episode 50. Happy-making

Holy cow has it been some time since we last posted an episode. Sincere apologies all around; life and a bad back have slowed us down. But we're back with episode 50, in which we spend a bunch of time discussing the all-important question of how to make, and sustain, happiness. We run through a great list of ideas and consider their implications. We also catch you up on our finances, Chris's purchase of a new iPhone using drug money (I kid...there's no need to alert law enforcement), and other fun things. Finally, in Love Notes, we show some gratitude for all the little ways we've been keeping each other afloat in busy times.

episode 49. A real wrist slapper

In this episode, Chris turns 40! Then he gets his wrist slapped. And rightfully so as we discuss last month's unfortunately exorbitant 'entertainment spending.' But we cover the good stuff, too, like how we've finally achieved one of our minor goals of saving almost all of Kelsey's paycheck. And, we answer a listener question on where best to put savings, a Fidelity account set up by one's parents, or a Vanguard Index Fund. Finally, we offer up some love notes about celebrating the good times and spending quality time together.

episode 48. The high five of endurance

This episode is all about the little things. We start off with a Status Update, in which Chris describes giving up caffeinated beverages completely (WHAT.), and Kelsey gets prematurely excited about all things winter (it's still 104 degrees here guys). In Home Economics, we talk through the many small ways we've cut costs, created efficiencies, and otherwise streamlined, in-sourced, and life-hacked our way to a happier, simpler life. Finally, we talk through a listener question on 'buffer amounts' in checking accounts, and we share our lovely Love Notes. Kelsey mentions our first true - but giggly - work meeting. And Chris reveals the High Five of Endurance.

If you want to learn more about our tips and tricks for cutting costs, we've detailed most of it on our blogs. Here are a few relevant posts:

Going paperless in the kitchen

Going paperless in the...ahem...bathroom

Cutting your and your kids' hair

Creating a capsule wardrobe for women

Creating a capsule wardrobe for men

Reducing the number of cars you drive

Saving money with packed lunches

...and lost of other great posts on living a voluntarily simplistic lifestyle!

episode 47. Feel the burn

On this episode, we share a bit of good financial news after a run of unlikely and unexpected expenses. Chris talks middle-age heartburn and Kelsey chats about books she's been devouring recently (including Fangirl and Carry On, which Chris also loved).

In Home Economics, we discuss our late-to-the-party conversion to Costco shopping. And we describe just how much we nerded out determining which Costco items would save us money compared to Trader Joes (hint: it was quite a lot).

Finally, in Tools You Can Use, we go back to the basics and walk through our budget as well as our use of Mint.com in helping us spend based on our values while keeping us honest in terms of our spending. And in Love Notes, Chris appreciates Kelsey's listening skills while Kelsey's loving the shared commute (during which she's done much of her listening).

episode 46. One crazy summer

We're back, and we missed you dear listeners! In our first episode of season 2, we catch you up on the heckuva summer we experienced...the good and the bad. In our new Home Economics segment, Chris talks about his new job and how we decided, together, to take it. We also talk about the crazy expenses that came up for us and how we handled them.

In Article Club, we discuss a great piece from the Boston Globe on recent research related to clutter and stress. Reserachers from UCLA followed 32 middle class families and documented all the ways stuff gets in the way of life.

And, in Love Notes, Kelsey talks about how much she appreciates the time Chris gives her to get away from the madness of a household of 2 (+1) boisterous boys. And Chris talks about how appreciative he is that the philosophy of less is a shared and cherished one at the HiFi House.

episode 45. Summer simplicity

In this somewhat belated episode, we talk about simplifying, saving money, hitting our healthy stride, and sewing. We also drop some important news. Are you ready dear listeners? OK...

We'll be taking a summer break to refocus, retool the show, and come back this fall with a new and improved Matrimoney!

So, this will be our last episode for a few months, but keep up with us on Instagram as well as our blogs and you'll be in the know when new episodes start coming out again.

Now back to your regularly scheduled show notes:

In Life, Chris describes his harrowing run-in with a bald eagle (no shit). And in Money, we talk about how we've done with budget categories we have a hard time containing (entertainment...argh) and those we are killing it on (groceries, yeah!). We also talk about ways we'll be looking to save even more money through the summer.

Finally, in One Big Thing, Kelsey talks about finding her healthy groove, and Chris talks about one of his new ventures, writing for a brand new, multicultural, online sewing magazine called Sew Sew Def! You can find out more here.

Enjoy the summer everyone. Feel free to continue to hit us up with questions via email; we're not going very far. :)

episode 44. Much ado about health

On this fun episode, we overcome insane allergies (thanks global warming) to talk all things health. We cover what we think of as health (it's pretty comprehensive), how we support our own health and that of our family, and what we spend on health-related stuff. (Chris also mentions a great web site where you can do good research on purchasing a good bike for your kids. Visit that site here.)

In life, we go a bit into our taxes and how we dealt with them this year. And in One Big Thing, Chris attacks the reductionist way we think about health while Kelsey discovers the 'Life Changing Magic of Not Giving a F*ck.'